It seems that the persons most concerned about the future of this country are former South Africans living abroad.   Our family roots go right back to 1659 and one of my treasured law books was published in 1657.   It still has its original vellum binding and when I hold it and turn the pages I reflect on all that has happened over more than 350 years.   Only one member of our immediate family lives in London.   Our two sons live near us and we enjoy their company on a regular basis and share the joy of watching our grand-children growing up.

A letter Don’t stress about us in SA from FirstRand founder and former executive Paul Harris to a concerned friend has gone viral.   It was first published in the Sunday Times: Business Times and an edited version appeared in Business Day on 28 October 2012.

Courtesy of Business Day here are some random extracts but the full article needs to be read and appreciated.

HOPE all is well with you guys.   I will drop you a line later with the family news but I would first like to respond to the e-mail you sent me attaching an article by Clem Sunter, which seemed to concern you about us here in South Africa.

You also sent me an article last year by Moeletsi Mbeki warning about the danger of an “Arab Spring” in South Africa.   I often get e-mails like this from “concerned friends” worried about us, which is sweet of you guys.   Of course we are concerned.   Some worrying things have happened but we have been through and survived much worse in much more volatile environments.   Including the Boer War, two World Wars, apartheid, the financial crisis without a bank bailout, the Rindapest, Ge Korsten and Die Antwoord!

However, for as long as I can remember there have always been people who think SA has five years left before we go over the cliff.   No change from when I was at school in the sixties.   The five years went down to a few months at times in the eighties!

But it seems the people who are the most worried live far from the cliff in places like Toronto, Auckland, London and other wet and cold places.   Also from St Ives and Rose Bay in Sydney, Dallas and Europe and other “safe places” that are in the grip of the global financial crisis, which by the way is quite scary.   Many of them have survived decades of rolling “five years left” since they left South Africa.   So maybe they will be right one day!

My message is, please don’t stress about us in South Africa.   We are fine.   We are cool.   We know we live in the most beautiful country in the world with warm and vibrant people.   There are more people here with smiles on their faces than in any country I have ever been to.

Young people are returning in droves with skills and a positive attitude.   Collectively we bumble along and stuff many things up while letting off a hell of a lot of steam (have you heard of a chap called Julius Malema?).   Yet in between South Africans do some amazing things like win a few gold medals, big golf tournaments and cricket and rugby matches.

The South Africans I know get off their butts and do things to build our country rather than whinge from a position of comfort.   We actively participate in projects that improve the lot of underprivileged communities.   I would not trade for anything last Saturday in a hall full of 1500 African teachers singing at the top of their voices and demonstrating their commitment to improving education in their communities.

South African politics has always been volatile, we have opinions that could not be further apart and it evokes emotion on a massive scale.   Interesting and stimulating for those that want to take it seriously but noise in the system to me.   Fortunately we are rid of apartheid that would have definitely pushed us over the cliff.   These are the birth pangs of a new and unpredictable democracy.   So buckle up and enjoy the ride and contribute! That is the message I convey to South Africans.

As you know I host many foreign visitors and I have never, EVER, met anyone who has visited for the first time without being blown away by the beauty of the country and the warmth of the people.   It is not for nothing that South Africa has the highest ratio of repeat visitors of all long-haul destinations.

So, Jeff, how can I help you stop stressing out about us? Maybe best is that you get exposed to some articles and websites that give a more balanced and uplifting perspective of South Africa.   So please don’t worry and if you get a chance, put in a good word for us.